Size guide

Sizes on toys are given as length and width. Here is how to read them and choose well.

Length

  • Overall length is the whole toy, including the base or handle.
  • Insertable length is the part that can be used. This is the number that matters.

You can filter any collection by length: under 5", 5" to 7", 7" to 9", and 9" and over.

Width

Width is usually given as a diameter at the widest point. Width matters more than length for comfort. As a rough guide, under 1.25" is gentle, 1.25" to 1.75" is average, and over 2" is for experienced users.

Choosing a size

  • If you are unsure, go a size down. You can always size up later.
  • Compare against something you already own and like.
  • Explore our Beginner friendly and Big & XL collections.

Clothing and harnesses

Clothing sizes follow each brand's own chart, shown on the product page where available. If you are between sizes on harnesses and jocks, choose the larger for comfort.