Bondage & fetish

Where to start with bondage and fetish gear

Start simple and build up. Soft cuffs, a blindfold or a collar are easy first steps, and you can add restraints, gags, hoods and harnesses as you learn what you enjoy. Agree on what you want to try before you start, choose a safe word or signal, and check in with each other throughout.

The range is led by Prowler Red's leather and fetish gear, Master Series' bondage and restraint kits, Strict and Strict Leather, Whip Smart, BRUTUS and Me You Us.

Restraints, cuffs and collars

Bondage restraints and cuffs range from padded, adjustable cuffs that are comfortable for beginners to lockable leather and heavy-duty metal designs. Keep a pair of safety scissors nearby, never leave a restrained person alone, and check hands and feet for tingling or colour changes.

Leather gear and harnesses

Our leather gear includes real leather and faux leather, from harnesses and jocks to shorts, shirts and accessories. For chest and body harnesses, see men's harnesses, and read how to size a men's leather harness before you order, because a good fit makes all the difference.

Hoods, masks and pup play

Fetish masks and hoods come in leather, neoprene and latex, including pup and pig hoods. Make sure any hood leaves the nose and mouth clear for breathing, and never use one with anything that restricts the airway. If pup play is new to you, our beginner's guide to pup play gear covers hoods, collars, mitts and tails.

Gags, impact and accessories

Silicone ball gags and bit gags are easier to clean than leather, and adjustable straps help with fit. With any gag, agree on a non-verbal signal in place of a safe word. Paddles, crops and floggers should only be used on fleshy areas, never on the spine, joints or kidneys.

Caring for fetish gear

Wipe leather with a damp cloth and condition it now and then to stop it cracking. Wash silicone and metal with warm water and a toy cleaner. Neoprene can usually be hand washed. Store latex away from light and metal, and dress it with a latex shine product.

Bondage and fetish questions

What should I buy first?

A pair of padded or adjustable cuffs and a blindfold are an easy, low-pressure way to start. They are comfortable, quick to remove and let you explore trust and anticipation without much equipment.

Is real leather better than faux leather?

Real leather moulds to your body, ages well and lasts for years with a little care. Faux and vegan leather is lighter, easier to wipe clean and usually more affordable. Both are listed clearly on each product page.

How do I keep bondage play safe?

Agree limits and a safe word before you start, use a non-verbal signal whenever speech is restricted, never restrain anyone around the neck, check circulation regularly, and keep safety scissors within reach.

What is a sex sling?

A sex sling is a suspended support, usually leather or nylon, that holds the body in position. It needs a rated fixing or frame, so always follow the manufacturer's weight limits and fitting instructions.

How should a harness fit?

A harness should sit flat against the body without digging in, and you should be able to slide two fingers under each strap. Measure your chest and waist before ordering, and choose adjustable straps if you are between sizes or plan to wear it over clothing. Our harness sizing guide shows exactly where to measure and how each style should sit on the body.

All gear ships from UK stock in plain, unbranded packaging.