Couples sex toys

Which couples sex toy should I choose?

Think about what you want to add. Wearable couples vibrators, like We-Vibe's Sync and Chorus ranges, sit in place during sex so you both feel the vibration. Vibrating cock rings add buzz at the base for both partners. Strap-ons and pegging kits open up new roles, and remote and app-controlled toys let one partner take charge from across the room or across the world.

Brands in the range include We-Vibe, Svakom, LELO, b-Vibe, Strap U and Me You Us.

Wearable and app-controlled vibrators

Many couples toys connect to an app, so you can choose patterns, share control or play at a distance. Look for adjustable designs that move with your bodies and stay put. Our remote and app-controlled toys collect them in one place.

Strap-ons and pegging

A strap-on is a harness worn at the hips with a compatible dildo. Harnesses range from simple adjustable straps to briefs and jockstrap styles, and most suction cup dildos fit a standard O-ring. Browse strap-ons and pegging, and if it is your first time, choose a slim dildo and use plenty of water-based lube. For pegging, a dildo with a curve can reach the prostate.

Cock rings for couples

A vibrating cock ring sits at the base of the penis with a small vibrating bullet or arm on top that stimulates the partner during sex. Read our cock ring guide for fit and safety: never wear one for more than 20 to 30 minutes.

Gifts and games

For something lighter, gifts and games includes card games, coupons, gift sets and kits that make it easier to talk about what you would like to try.

Talking about it, and looking after your toys

Introducing a toy goes best when you choose it together. Start with something small, agree what you both want, and keep it light. Use water-based lube with silicone toys, clean every toy after use with warm water and a toy cleaner, and let it dry fully.

Couples toy questions

What is the best first couples toy?

A wearable vibrator or a stretchy vibrating cock ring is an easy start, because both fit into sex you already have rather than changing it. They are also small, quiet and simple to use.

Do app-controlled toys work over long distances?

Many app-controlled toys let a partner take control remotely as well as nearby. Check the product description for the app and the features it supports before you buy.

Do strap-on harnesses fit any dildo?

Most harnesses take a dildo with a flared or suction cup base through an O-ring. Some kits come with a matching dildo, and Vac-U-Lock dildos need a Vac-U-Lock harness.

How do we clean toys we share?

Wash the toy with warm water and a toy cleaner between partners and between anal and vaginal use, or use a condom over the toy and change it each time.

Which lube is best for couples?

A water-based lube is the safe all-rounder, because it works with every toy and condom and is easy to clean up. Keep a bottle within reach and reapply as you go.

How do we choose a strap-on size?

For the receiving partner, the dildo matters more than the harness. Choose a slim, gently curved dildo for a first time and build up from there. For the wearer, look for a harness with adjustable straps that sits snugly at the hips, so the dildo stays steady and does not bounce. Briefs and jockstrap-style harnesses are often the most comfortable for longer sessions.

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