Best lube for anal: a UK guide to choosing the right one

Lube matters more for anal play than for anything else, because the body does not make its own lubrication there. The right lube makes play comfortable and safe, and the wrong one can make it neither. Here is how to choose.

Why anal lube is different

Anal lubes are usually thicker and longer lasting than general-purpose lubes. A thicker texture cushions and stays put, so you reapply less often. Look for products described as a gel or "anal" formula, such as those in our anal lube collection.

Water-based or silicone-based?

• Water-based lube is safe with every toy and every condom, washes off easily and does not stain. It can dry out faster, so keep the bottle close. This is the best choice if you are using silicone toys. Shop water-based lube.
• Silicone-based lube lasts much longer and stays slippery in water. It is condom-safe, but it can damage silicone toys, so keep it for glass, metal and hard plastic toys, or for play without toys.
• Hybrid lubes mix the two for a longer-lasting feel that is still easy to wash off. Check the maker's guidance before using a hybrid with silicone toys.

Avoid numbing lube

Desensitising or numbing lubes can hide discomfort, and discomfort is your body telling you to slow down. For comfortable play, rely on plenty of lube, relaxation and patience rather than numbing agents.

How much should you use?

More than you think. Apply to the toy or body and reapply whenever things start to feel less slippery. There is no such thing as too much lube for anal play.

Our picks

Trusted brands include Pjur, whose Back Door and Analyse Me ranges are made for anal play, and Swiss Navy. If you are new to anal play, read our beginner's guide and browse beginner friendly toys.

Everything ships from UK stock in plain, unbranded packaging.