Lube & care
How to Clean a Silicone Sex Toy the Right Way
Step by step cleaning, drying and storage advice for silicone sex toys, plus the common mistakes that damage them.
Silicone is one of the most popular materials for sex toys because it is smooth, body-safe and non-porous, which means it does not trap bacteria in tiny holes the way some softer materials can. It is also one of the easiest materials to keep clean. Here is how to do it properly, whether your toy is a simple plug or a rechargeable vibrator.
Clean before and after every use
It is a good habit to wash your toy both before and after you use it. Cleaning afterwards removes body fluids and lube before they dry. A quick rinse beforehand removes any dust or lint picked up in storage. This matters even more if you share toys with a partner or use the same toy in different ways.
Method one: warm water and mild soap
For most silicone toys, this is all you need.
- If the toy is motorised, switch it off and check whether it is waterproof. If it is only splash-resistant, clean it with a damp cloth rather than holding it under the tap.
- Wash the toy in warm water with a mild, unscented soap. Avoid heavily perfumed soaps, as the residue can irritate delicate skin.
- Pay attention to ridges, textures and the base, where lube and fluids can collect. A soft cloth or clean soft brush helps with detailed shapes.
- Rinse thoroughly so no soap remains on the surface.
Method two: a dedicated toy cleaner
Toy cleaners are sprays or foams designed for use on sex toys. They are convenient when you are not near a sink, and they are gentle on body-safe materials. Spray, leave for the time shown on the label, then rinse or wipe off as the maker directs. You will find cleaners in our douches and toy care range.
Can you boil a silicone toy?
Sometimes. Pure silicone can withstand high temperatures, so many makers say their non-motorised silicone toys, such as dildos and plugs without any electronics, can be sterilised in boiling water. If your toy's instructions allow it:
- Place it in a pan of boiling water for a few minutes, keeping it off the base of the pan so it does not touch the hot metal directly.
- Remove it carefully and let it cool before handling.
Never boil anything with a motor, battery or charging port, and do not boil a toy unless the maker says it is safe to do so. Some toys look like silicone but are made from a blend or a different material, and heat can damage them. If you are unsure what your toy is made from, our materials guide and our article on silicone vs TPE explain the differences.
Drying your toy
Drying is as important as washing. Moisture left on a toy or trapped in crevices can encourage bacteria. Pat the toy dry with a clean, lint-free towel, then leave it to air dry completely before putting it away. For rechargeable toys, make sure the charging port and contacts are fully dry before you charge.
Storing silicone toys
- Keep them clean and dry. A fabric pouch or the original box keeps dust away.
- Store them separately. Silicone can react with some other materials if they are left touching for long periods, so give each toy its own pouch or space.
- Avoid heat and sunlight. A cool drawer is ideal.
- Remove batteries from toys that use them if you will not be using them for a while.
What to avoid
- Silicone lube. Silicone-based lubricant can damage the surface of silicone toys, leaving them sticky or tacky. Use water-based lube instead, which is safe with every material. Browse our water-based lube.
- Harsh chemicals. Bleach, alcohol, household cleaners and abrasive scourers can damage silicone and irritate skin.
- The dishwasher. Unless the maker specifically recommends it, skip it. Detergents and heat cycles vary, and motorised toys will be ruined.
- Submerging non-waterproof toys. Water getting into a motor or charging port is one of the most common ways toys stop working.
When to replace a toy
A well-cared-for silicone toy can last a long time, but check it regularly. If you notice tears, cracks, a sticky surface or a change in texture that does not wash away, it is time to replace it, as damaged surfaces are harder to keep clean.
For more on keeping every type of toy in good condition, read our full toy care guide.
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