Dildos

Which dildo should I choose?

Start with how you want to use it. A slim, curved dildo is the easiest first step and is shaped to reach the G-spot or prostate. A realistic dildo gives a familiar look and feel, and many come with balls and a suction cup base. Non-realistic and fantasy designs trade veins for smooth curves, bright colours and bold textures. If you already know you like a fuller feeling, our Big & XL range goes all the way up to statement pieces, while beginner friendly picks keep things manageable.

You will find well-known names here, including MINA's curved silicone range, Vac-U-Lock compatible dildos from Doc Johnson, realistic shafts from Me You Us and Prowler Red, and novelty kits from Clone A Willy that let you make a copy of your own.

Materials: silicone, TPE and PVC

Material is the most important choice you will make, because it decides how long a toy lasts and how easy it is to keep clean. Silicone dildos are non-porous, warm up quickly to body temperature and can be washed thoroughly with warm water and a toy cleaner, which is why we recommend them for anything you plan to use often. Real-feel materials such as TPE look and feel lifelike, but they are porous, so they need careful cleaning and drying and are best kept for one person. PVC is firm, affordable and common on realistic dildos.

Not sure what the labels mean? Our guide to silicone vs TPE explains the difference in plain English, and the material is shown on each product page wherever the manufacturer gives it.

How to choose the right size

Insertable length and width matter more than overall length, because the base and balls do not go anywhere. Compare the measurements on the product page with a toy you already find comfortable, and if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller one. Width is what most people notice first, so a dildo that is a little longer but slimmer is usually easier than a short, thick one. Our size guide shows how to read each measurement.

How to use a dildo

Use plenty of lube, start slowly and let your body set the pace. With silicone toys, always use a water-based lube, because silicone lube can damage the surface. Our guide to the best lube for silicone toys covers what to buy and what to avoid. For anal play, only use a dildo with a flared or suction cup base, so it cannot slip too far.

Hands-free and harness play

A suction cup dildo sticks to any smooth, clean surface such as a tiled wall, a door or a bath, which frees up your hands and opens up new positions. Most suction cup dildos also fit a harness, so browse strap-ons and pegging kits if you want to share. If you prefer something with movement, vibrating dildos and thrusting toys do some of the work for you.

Fantasy and creature designs

For scales, ridges, tentacles and knots, our creature and fantasy dildos are made mostly in body-safe silicone, with a strong focus on texture and colour.

Cleaning and storing your dildo

Wash your dildo before the first use and after every use with warm water and a toy cleaner, then let it dry completely before you put it away. Store each toy separately, ideally in a cloth bag, because some materials can react when they touch. The steps are set out in how to clean a silicone sex toy.

Dildo questions

What is Vac-U-Lock?

Vac-U-Lock is a fitting system from Doc Johnson. The dildo has a hollow socket in the base that pushes onto a matching plug on a harness or handle, so it stays firmly in place. Vac-U-Lock dildos only fit Vac-U-Lock accessories.

Every order ships from UK stock in plain, unbranded packaging, and UK delivery is free on orders over £50.